Showing posts with label continuing bonds. Show all posts
Showing posts with label continuing bonds. Show all posts

Thursday, December 17, 2020

During the holidays, giving gifts to the dead can help you cope with grief

  Every December, my family decorates two Christmas trees: one for our living room and one for the cemetery, where my sister is buried.

  She died when she was 15 years old. Twenty years later, we still buy a new ornament each year to place on her mini graveside Christmas tree.

  The ritual might seem a bit strange, but my family isn’t alone. If you drive past a cemetery during the holidays, you’ll likely see graves festooned with holiday decorations and seasonal trinkets.