How come? Well, the term “values” refers to core beliefs
and convictions that drive decisions. Our values are revealed not by what we
say but by what we do.
The simple fact is, time and money are limited
resources that can materially affect the quality of our lives, so how we spend
them reveals what’s really important to us.
We tend to think of our values in the grand context
of our deepest moral convictions, but most of us have strong desires that have
nothing to do with right and wrong. We value pleasure, comfort, companionship,
adventure, and though we hate to admit it, certain possessions and luxuries.
There’s nothing wrong with having and pursuing these
non-moral values so long as ethical values aren’t sacrificed in the process.
Ultimately, though, it’s how we prioritize competing values that defines us.
Our character is determined by our dominant values.
So if you knew that your character would be judged
by the choices reflected in your calendar and checkbook, would you spend either
your time or money differently?
Are you spending enough time with your children,
your parents, your friends? Are you devoting enough time helping others,
reflecting, learning, and growing?
Do you put your money where your mouth is? Do you
give an adequate amount of your income to charity? Are you making the choice to
help the causes you really believe in?
The good news: it’s never too late to change your
priorities.
About the author: Michael Josephson is one of the
nation’s most sought-after and quoted ethicists. Founder and president of
Josephson Institute and its CHARACTER COUNTS! project, he has conducted
programs for more than 100,000 leaders in government, business, education,
sports, law enforcement, journalism, law, and the military. Mr. Josephson is
also an award-winning radio commentator.
This article was published by the Josephson
Institute.
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